BASIC GUIDE TO DIVORCE – Washburn Packet
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BASIC GUIDE TO DIVORCE/LEGAL SEPARATION
TABLE OF CONTENTS
HOW YOU WANT TO FILE
LEGAL ISSUES TO CONSIDER
COUNTY CHECKLIST FOR EACH TYPE OF DIVORCE
/LEGAL SEPARATION
DECIDE HOW YOU WILL FILE
You need to decide if you and your spouse will be signing the
Petition together (filing jointly) or if only one of you will be completing the
forms to start the action (filing alone)
LEGAL ISSUES TO CONS
IDER
SELF
-
REPRESENTATION
(PRO SE)
Pro Se means to represent yours
elf in court without an attorney. There are significant risks and responsibilities to doing so. You
should
explore the risks and determine if you can fulfill the responsibilities required. Your case may be too complex to handle on y
our own.
Sometimes when people represent themselves, they have to hire an attorney to "fix" their mistakes. It may cost mor
e to hire an attorney
to "fix" the mistake than it would to have hired the attorney to handle it from the beginning.
Court staff
cannot
give legal advice to you. Court staff
can
provide general information about court rules, procedures, practices, and
ter
ms.
JURISDICTION: WHERE
SHOULD YOU FILE?
Divorces and legal separations are filed in the county you currently reside, not where you were married.
To file for divorce in a County in Wisconsin, at least one of the parties must:
Be a
resident of the State of Wisconsin
for at least
6 months
immediately before the date the action is filed, and
Be a
resident of the County in which you are filing for divorce
for
at least the
30 days
immediately before the date the action is
filed.
To
file for legal separation in a County in Wisconsin, at least one of the parties must:
Be a
resident of the State of Wisconsin
for at least the
30 days
immediately before the date the action is filed, and
Be a
resident of the County in which you are filing
for legal separation
for
at least the
30 days
immediately before the date the
action is filed.
DIVORCE, LEGAL SEPAR
ATION, OR ANNULMENT?
Divorce
Divorce
ends
a marriage. The court rules on such issues as the division of property, maintenance (spousal
support), and if necessary,
arrangements for child support, legal custody, and physical placement. There is a 120
-
day waiting period to get divorced. Once the
divorce is granted, the parties cannot remarry anywhere in the world for at least six months.
Sp
ouses do not have to give reasons for wanting a divorce. Wisconsin is a "no fault" divorce state, which means neither spouse
must
prove that the other has done anything wrong, and only one spouse must testify under oath that he or she believes that the ma
r
riage
is irretrievably broken. A marriage is irretrievably broken when there is no chance for reconciliation.
Legal Separation
Legal separation
does not end
a marriage. The court rules on the same issues as for divorce. The forms, instructions, procedural
information, and waiting period (120 days) for obtaining a legal separation are also the same as those for divorce. Spouses a
re free to
reconcile at any time. Spouses cannot marry another person while they are legally separated. If the spouses agree, they
may convert
the legal separation to a divorce at any time. If they do not agree, either spouse may convert the legal separation into a di
vorce by filing
a motion to do so after one year from the date the legal separation was granted. The parties may not r
emarry anywhere in the world
for at least six months from the day the legal separation is converted to a divorce.
Spouses do have to give a reason why they are requesting a legal separation and not a divorce. Both of the spouses will have
to give
testimon
y under oath that the marital relationship is broken.
Annulment
An annulment is a court procedure that declares that a marriage never existed. However, a court may annul a marriage only und
er
limited circumstances. A short term
marriage IS NOT a legal reason for annulment. See Wisconsin Statute 767.313 for the acceptable
reasons to request an annulment. The forms, instructions, and procedural information provided by the Wisconsin Court System
are not
designed to be used to reque
st an annulment. You should seek legal assistance if you feel you qualify and would like to file an
annulment.
OTHER ISSUES TO CONS
IDER
Legal Custody
Legal custody refers to the major decision
-
making authority for a minor child, including but not limited to decisions regarding consent
to marry, enter military service, obtain a driver's license, authorization for non
-
emergency healthcare and choice of sc
hool and religion.
Wisconsin law presumes that it is in the best interest of the minor child that the parents be granted joint legal custody. Jo
int legal
custody means that
neither
parent's legal custody rights are superior, except as ordered by the court
or agreed to by the parents. A
court may find that awarding joint legal custody would be harmful to the minor child and order sole legal custody to one pare
nt.
Physical Placement
(visitation)
Physical placement refers to the right to have a minor child ph
ysically placed with a parent. It gives that parent the right and
responsibility to make, during that placement, routine daily decisions regarding the child's care. One parent may be awarded
physical
placement with the other parent having periods of physic
al placement (visitation), or the parents may be awarded shared physical
placement. If either parent is awarded less than 25% placement, specific reasons must be given explaining why more placement
with
that parent is not in the child’s best interest.
Med
iation
It is recommended that the parents come to an agreement as to the legal custody and physical placement of their children. If
they
cannot, and a dispute arises, the court will order that the parents attend a mediation session. Parents must submit pa
renting plans (FA
-
4147V) to the mediator 10 days before the initial mediation session. If the parents are still unable to come to an agreement,
the court
may make other orders, including the appointment of an attorney to represent the interests of a minor
child (Guardian ad Litem), and
the filing of a Proposed Parenting Plan with the court. In making a final decision on legal custody or physical placement, th
e court will
consider all factors related to the best interest of the child, including those listed
in WI Statute 767.41, which is available at the following
website:
http://www.legis.state.wi.us/Statutes/Stat0767.pdf
Personal Safety Issues
If your case involves minor children, and you
have serious reason to believe that your health, safety, or liberty or that of a
minor child
would be jeopardized by the disclosure of certain identifying information both in paper and electronic records,
you may request that
identifying information be sea
led from the public or the other party until a hearing is held. Once you
have completed the forms (
GF
-
177
and
GF
-
178
), the court will schedule a hearing. At that
hearing you will have to convince the judge that it is in the interest of
justice for the information to continue to be sealed.
Child Support
The court may order either or both parents to pay child support for a child who is:
Under the age of 18, or
Age 1
8, but less than 19 and pursuing an accredited course of instruction leading to a high school diploma or its equivalent.
Payments for
child support
are generally intended to include basic support costs including food, shelter, clothing, transportation,
pe
rsonal care, and incidental recreational costs. Under a shared placement circumstance, parents may also be required to pay
variable
costs
(reasonable expenses above basic support costs) in addition to child support, including child care, tuition, a child's
special needs,
or other activities that involve substantial cost.
Child support is calculated based upon the percentage standard guidelines established by the State of Wisconsin Department of
Children and Families (DCF).
Not every family situation is the
same, so the approach
that applies to a specific situation may be
somewhat different from the guidelines.
The court may order an alternative that is greater or less than the guidelines if the use of the
guidelines is unfair to one of the parents or childr
en based on the circumstances, including but not limited to shared
-
placement, split
-
placement, low
-
income, high
-
income, or serial
-
family payer circumstances. The child support standard guidelines are based on “gross”
(pre
-
tax) income of the payer or both
parties, and the number of children they have in common.
The designated percentage amounts
are:
17% for one child
25% for two children
29% for three children
31% for four children
34% for five children
Maintenance (Spousal Support)
A spouse seeking support from the other spouse may request maintenance in the divorce or legal separation. The court may orde
r
maintenance for a limited or indefinite length of time. When considering whether to award maintenance, the court will look at
all
of
the circumstances of the parties, including but not limited to, the factors listed in WI Statute 767.56. This statute is avai
lable at the
following website:
http://www.legis.state.wi.u
s/Statutes/Stat0767.pdf
Property Division
Wisconsin presumes that all property, other than property that a party receives as a gift or through inheritance, will be div
ided equally
(after considering all debts). To achieve an equal division of property, t
he judge may award property to one party and a cash payment
to the other party. The judge may divide property unequally after considering the factors described in WI Statute 767.61, whi
ch is
available at the following website:
http://www.legis.state.wi.us/Statutes/Stat0767.pdf
If the spouses agree on how to divide all their property, they must provide a description of which spouse will receive which
property.
This also applies to the proper
ty that may have already been divided.
If the spouses have already divided the
property, or it is only in
one spouse's name, they must still tell the court which spouse will get what property and
the value of that property.
Debts and Obligations
The spous
es must disclose all debts, regardless of who they believe will be responsible for them.
The judge will determine which
spouse is responsible to pay the debts and other obligations after considering any agreements between the parties. Even if th
e judge
ord
ers one spouse to pay certain debts after divorce/legal separation, creditors are not bound by the court order established in
Family
Court and may seek payment from the other party if the party ordered to make the payments doesn't pay or files for bankrupt
cy. If this
occurs, the party may request relief from the Family Court, but only if a specific order was established for payment of the d
ebt or
obligation.
WASHBURN COUNTY
FILING FOR DIVORCE OR LEGAL SEPARATION WITH MINOR CHILDREN
Use these forms if the parties
do not have an agreement
or are filing alone
.
For easy online assistance and to print forms go to:
www.wicourts.gov
Click on:
E
-
filing
Forms Assistant
Start Forms
Complete an online interview process and answer a series of questions.
After completing the question and answer portion, print completed forms and bring to the Clerk of Courts Office for fili
ng
as directed below.
Need further assistance
? Contact the
FAMILY CLERK #715
-
468
-
4677
CHECKLIST
To open
a
case, you will need to provide the Clerk of Courts Office with:
FA
-
4104
V
Summons with Minor Children
FA
-
4108V
Petition with Minor Children
GF
-
179
Confidential Petition Addendum
WORKSHEET
Divorce/Annulment Worksheet
-
Attached
FEE
Filing fee of $194.50
You may request a temporary hearing before the Family Court Commissioner by completing the listed forms if you and your
spouse cannot agre
e on any of the following issues:
CHILD CUSTODY
USE OF AUTOMOBILES OR OTHER PERSONAL PROPERTY
CHILD PLACEMENT
PAYMENT OF BILLS
CHILD SUPPORT
PAYMENT OF MAINTENANCE OR SPOUSAL SUPPORT
USE OF THE FAMILY RESIDENCE
FA
-
4128VA
Affidavit to Show
Cause and Request or Hearing for Temporary Order with Minor Children
FA
-
4128VB
Order to Show Cause with Minor Children
OR if you and your spouse have an agreement the following forms need to
be
filed:
FA
-
4126VA
Stipulation for Temporary Order with Min
or Children
FA
-
4126VB
Temporary Order with Minor Children
Complete and file the following forms within 90 days of opening your case:
FA
-
4119
V
Admission of Service
-
If other party voluntarily accepts service OR
FA
-
4120
V
Affidavit of Service
-
If se
rved by Sheriff’s Department or processed server OR
Certificate of Service provided by the Sheriff’s Department
FA
-
4139
V
Financial Disclosure Statement
–
Each party must file their own
form
FA
-
4147
V
Proposed Parenting Plan
–
Each party may fill
their own out or fill it out together
FA
-
4150
V
Marital Settlement Agreement with Minor Children
–
Full Agreement if parties
ARE
in agreement
OR Proposed by One Party if Parties are
NOT
in agreement
Children in Between Certificate
FA
-
4160VA
Findin
gs of Fact, Conclusions of Law and Judgment with Minor Children
FORMS MAY BE FOUND AT:
WWW.WICOURTS.GOV
FORMS
CIRCUIT COURT FAMILY
ALL FAMILY FORMS
WASHBURN COUNTY
FILING FOR DIVORCE OR LEGAL SEPARATION WITH
OUT
MINOR CHILDREN
Use these forms if the parties
do not have an agreement
or are filing alone
.
For easy online assistance and to print forms go to:
www.wicourts.gov
Click on:
E
-
filing
Forms Assistant
Start Forms
Complete an online interview process and answer a series of questions.
After completing the question and answer portion, print completed forms and bring to the Clerk of Courts Office for fili
ng
as directed below.
Need further assistance
? Contact the
FAMILY CLERK #715
-
468
-
4677
CHECKLIST
To open
a
case, you will need to provide the Clerk of Courts Office with:
FA
-
410
5
V
Summons with
out
Minor Children
FA
-
410
9
V
Petition with
out
Minor Children
GF
-
179
Confidential Petition Addendum
WORKSHEET
Divorce/Annulment Worksheet
-
Attached
FEE
Filing fee of $18
4.50
You may request a temporary hearing before the Family Court Commissioner by completing the listed forms if you and your
spouse cannot agree on any of the following issues:
USE OF AUTOMOBILES OR OTHER PERSONAL PROPERTY
PAYMENT OF BILLS
PAYMENT OF MAINTENANCE OR SPOUSAL SUPPORT
USE OF THE FAMILY RESIDENCE
FA
-
4129
VA
Affidavit to Show Cause and Request or Hearing for
Temporary Order with
out
Minor Children
FA
-
412
9
VB
Order to Show Cause with
out
Minor Children
OR if you and your spouse have an agreement the following forms need to
be
filed:
FA
-
4127
VA
Stipulation for Temporary Order with
out
Minor Children
FA
-
4127
VB
Temporary Order with
out
Minor Children
Complete and file the following forms within 90 days of opening your case:
FA
-
4119
V
Admission of Service
-
If other party voluntarily accepts service OR
FA
-
4120
V
Affidavit of Service
-
If served by Sheriff’s De
partment or processed server OR
Certificate of Service provided by the Sheriff’s Department
FA
-
4139
V
Financial Disclosure Statement
–
Each party must file their own
form
FA
-
415
1V
Marital Settlement Agreement without Minor Children
–
Full Agreement i
f parties
ARE
in
agreement OR Proposed by One Party if Parties are
NOT
in agreement
FA
-
416
1
VA
Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law and Judgment with
out
Minor Children
FORMS MAY BE FOUND AT:
WWW.WICOURTS.GOV
FORMS
CIRCUIT COURT FAMILY
ALL FAMILY FORMS
WASHBURN COUNTY
FILING FOR DIVORCE OR LEGAL SEPARATION WITH MINOR CHILDREN
Use these forms if the parties
have an agreement
and filing together
.
For easy online assistance and to print forms go to:
www.wicourts.gov
Click on:
E
-
filing
Forms Assistant
Start Forms
Complete an online interview process and answer a series of questions.
After completing the question and answer portion, print completed forms and bring to the Clerk of Courts Office for fili
ng
as directed below.
Need further assistance
? Contact the
FAMILY CLERK #715
-
468
-
4677
CHECKLIST
To open
a
case, you will need to provide the Clerk of Courts Office with:
FA
-
4110V
Joint Petition
with Minor Children
GF
-
179
Confidential Petition
Addendum
WORKSHEET
Divorce/Annulment Worksheet
-
Attached
FEE
Filing fee of $194.50
You may request a temporary hearing before the Family Court Commissioner by completing the listed forms if you and your
spouse cannot agree on any of the following iss
ues:
CHILD CUSTODY
USE OF AUTOMOBILES OR OTHER PERSONAL PROPERTY
CHILD PLACEMENT
PAYMENT OF BILLS
CHILD SUPPORT
PAYMENT OF MAINTENANCE OR SPOUSAL SUPPORT
USE OF THE FAMILY RESIDENCE
FA
-
4128VA
Affidavit to Show Cause and Request or Hearing for
Temporary Order with Minor Children
FA
-
4128VB
Order to Show Cause with Minor Children
OR if you and your spouse have an agreement the following forms need to
be
filed:
FA
-
4126VA
Stipulation for Temporary Order with Minor Children
FA
-
4126VB
Temporary
Order with Minor Children
Complete and file the following forms within 90 days of opening your case:
FA
-
4139
V
Financial Disclosure Statement
–
Each party must file their own
form
FA
-
4147
V
Proposed Parenting Plan
–
Each party may fill their own out o
r fill it out together
FA
-
4150
V
Marital Settlement Agreement with Minor Children
–
Full Agreement if parties
ARE
in agreement
OR Proposed by One Party if Parties are
NOT
in agreement
Children in Between Certificate
FA
-
4160VA
Findings of Fact,
Conclusions of Law and Judgment with Minor Children
FORMS MAY BE FOUND AT:
WWW.WICOURTS.GOV
FORMS
CIRCUIT COURT FAMILY
ALL FAMILY FORMS
WASHBURN COUNTY
FILING FOR DIVORCE OR LEGAL SEPARATION WITH
OUT
MINOR CHILDREN
Use these forms if the parties
have an agreement
and filing together
.
For easy online assistance and to print forms go to:
www.wicourts.gov
Click on:
E
-
filing
Forms Assistant
Start Forms
Complete an online interview process and answer a series of questions.
After completing the question and answer portion, print completed forms and bring to the Clerk of Courts Office for fili
ng
as directed below.
Need further assistance
? Contact the
FAMILY CLERK #715
-
468
-
4677
CHECKLIST
To open
a
case, you will need to provide the Clerk of Courts Office with:
FA
-
4111
V
Joint Petition
with
out
Minor Children
GF
-
179
Confidential Petition
Addendum
WORKSHEET
Divorce/Annulment Worksheet
-
Attached
FEE
Filing fee of $1
8
4.50
You may request a temporary hearing before the Family Court Commissioner by completing the listed forms if you and your
spouse cannot agree on any of the following iss
ues:
USE OF AUTOMOBILES OR OTHER PERSONAL PROPERTY
PAYMENT OF BILLS
PAYMENT OF MAINTENANCE OR SPOUSAL SUPPORT
USE OF THE FAMILY RESIDENCE
FA
-
4129
VA
Affidavit to Show Cause and Request or Hearing for Temporary Order with
out
Minor Children
FA
-
4129
VB
Order to Show Cause with
out
Minor Children
OR if you and your spouse have an agreement the following forms need to
be
filed:
FA
-
4127
VA
Stipulation for Temporary Order with
out
Minor Children
FA
-
4127
VB
Temporary Order with
out
Minor Children
Complete a
nd file the following forms within 90 days of opening your case:
FA
-
4139
V
Financial Disclosure Statement
–
Each party must file their own
form
FA
-
4151V
Marital Settlement Agreement with
out
Minor Children
–
Full Agreement i
f parties
ARE
in
agreement OR
Proposed by One Party if
Parties are
NOT
in
agreement
FA
-
4161
VA
Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law and Judgment with
out
Minor Children
FORMS MAY BE FOUND AT:
WWW.WICOURTS.GOV
FORMS
CIRCUIT COURT FAMILY
ALL FAMILY FORMS
Source: Washburn County website. First collected Oct 18, 2026.